6 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2010)A female
age 16-17, anonymous writes:
My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while over 2 months now, but I'm never actually the one to actually DO anything. I've never actually given a handjob, or blowjob. But I really want to pleasure him the way he pleasures me. Just recently he fingered me, it weas so great, so now my question is, just how to begin to give a handjob,... at the movies, and Can a handjob lead to a blowjob?
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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):
If you do that in the movies you could very well be labeled a sex offender, and your life will be ruined. A male reader, B. Shakey +, writes (6 November 2010):
Yes. Hand jobs are well known to be the gate way act to hard core sex like BJ's. ............................... A female reader, natasia 
+, writes (6 November 2010):
OK. Number 1, don't be so daft: you can't give him a handjob at the movies!! Have you gone mad? People will be sitting all around you, and possibly children! So, whatever you do, it is something to do in private, on your own with him. Next thing ... how to do it? I will let other aunts explain that, and the same with the blowjob, but the main principle is: do what feels natural. I have to say, though, that I can't imagine giving a blowjob either with a condom or a mouthguard.!!!! I would sincerely hope that your boyfriend doesn't have any STDs - better to get him checked and then go ahead, but really, I don't think you or he will enjoy a blowjob with you wearing a mouthguard. I have never even heard of such a thing. Call me either old-fashioned or stupid, but what an idea ... much better to get him checked out! ............................... A female reader, tennisstar88 + ?, writes (6 November 2010):
I agree you shouldn't do it at the movies, you could get caught by one of the ushers and thrown out or charges pressed against you. A handjob in my opinion is something guys can do themselves on their own time. It's like taking the orange juice out of the fridge and shaking up all the pulp that rests at the bottom. Only you want to do slow up and down motions..and your wrist tires after a while. A blow job, you just pretend you're licking and sucking on the best popsicle or lollipop you've ever had. Now they don't usually go hand in hand..it's either one or the other. If you're going to do both, then that's just being too generous. You might to have time of where you get yours too. ............................... A female reader, followtheblackrabbit 
+ ?, writes (6 November 2010):
I don't reccomend you do such things at the movies, some theaters have cameras for just that reason. A hanjob starts off with touching, kissing. Usually, you touch a person's chest, and work ur way down. You touch through the clothes first and then, go from there. And no a hanjob does NOT have to lead to a blowjob, that's usually up to you. While performing a blowjob, I would hope that condoms be used. Oral sex does lead to STDs and other health issues...so, flavored condoms were invented in the hope that STDs would be reduced. Mouth guards are another option. ............................... A male reader, trancedrhythmear 
+ ?, writes (6 November 2010):
Leave that stuff in the bedroom and private and away from others doll. Im sure your bf would appreciate that. ............................... All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft
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