4 Answers - (Newest, 6 November 2010)A female
age 13-15, anonymous writes:
i am in year 10 at the moment and there is a teacher and i really like him i cannot stop thinking about him i love him and i was talking to someone and they sed i am to young to fall in love but i have been feeling like this since year 7.
he has taught me every year so far and i know that he will be teaching me through year 11 as well. i really dont know what to do do i really love him? how do i stop thinking about him. i am 14 and he is 29 plz plz plz help
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A female reader, anna_1209 +, writes (6 November 2010):
I had a massive crush on one of my teachers when I was 15, and it really upset me when everyone said nothing could happen and I should get over it. But its true. If you've felt like this over your teacher for years its more likely an infatuation than love (and believe me I know how that feels!). He could never become involved with you because, firstly you're underage and secondly he would lose his job even if you were over 16. Its hard to stop thinking about it but the best thing to do is concentrate on other things in your life - friends, schoolwork, and try and get to know guys your own age. Older men, especially authority figures can be very attractive but I'm sure you could find plenty of nice 14 year old guys who you will have lots more in common with :) good luck, you're not alone in feeling like that, the important thing is to realise that nothing will happen and move on. A male reader, bernard 
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yes i understand i fell in love with my music teacher in school i held it inside but later in life when i became a man i was able to date her but she was older and it didnt work out you will gat over this teacher hes to mush older than you ............................... A female reader, dmartin89 + ?, writes (6 November 2010):
No, you are infatuated. Your hormones are crazy at your age. I remember "being in love" with my history teacher for 4 years. Now I'm 21 and I don't even remember his name!! ............................... A female reader, thewalkin'dude + ?, writes (6 November 2010):
You know, if i had a £1 for everytime i saw a post like this i'd be a millionaire. It's perfectly natural to develop a crush at your age but that's all it is. When i was at school, about 8 years ago, i was convinced i was "in love" with one of my teachers now i'm an adult i have no idea why because he wasn't even attractive. It will pass, trust me. When you eventually leave school you won't even give him a second thought. ............................... All Content Copyright (C) DearCupid.ORG 2004-2008 - we actively monitor for copyright theft
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