7.11.10

He cheats lies took my virginity...now wants me back

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A female reader, SavannahR United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

SavannahR is verified as being by the original poster of the question SavannahR agony auntlol thats hard to fiind now are days

A female reader, SavannahR United States +, writes (6 November 2010):

SavannahR is verified as being by the original poster of the question SavannahR agony auntlol thats hard to fiind now are days ...............................   

A reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

I would forget both of them. You deserve a sweet guy, not a jerk. ...............................   

A female reader, Closet romance14 United States + ?, writes (6 November 2010):

Closet romance14 agony auntIf i was you i wouldn't choose either of them. In a real and caring relationship, noone cheats, lies, or puts you down. But if i had to choose one i would choose the asshole. Atleast he doesn't cheat or lie. but i would talk to him and explain that he actions really hurt you. And he needs to be more caring. The cheater and lier doesn't deserve you. You don't want to be in a relationship with someone you cannot trust. ...............................   

A male reader, strongfp Canada + ?, writes (6 November 2010):

strongfp agony auntYou are just physically attatched to this guy who took your virginity, it happens to alot of people whether they love them or not, it's a very intimate situation to be in and it's the ultimate 'control' over your body so you feel most comfortable with him. I think you have a case of what I call 'two outa three aint bad' you want him, you need him but you don't really love him. As for this new guy, you say he's an asshole and such? Judging from what I am reading you are mixing into the wrong guys here, just lay low from the boy drama for now and be single for a bit, gather your head and thoughts together. And find a nice guy! ...............................   

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